Ebb and Flow Blog
Thoughtful reflections to support clarity, understanding, and deeper connection.
This space is where I offer reflections on what I notice in the therapy room: the patterns, emotions, and turning points that shape how couples grow and reconnect. Some posts are here to educate; others pull back the curtain a bit, offering a glimpse into how I think as a systems‑trained therapist and what I pay attention to in the work.
My hope is that these reflections help you feel more grounded, more understood, and more equipped to navigate the moments that matter most in your relationship. Whether you’re here to learn, to feel less alone, or to get a sense of what working together might be like, I’m glad you’re here.
What Is IBCT in Couples Therapy? (Copy)
Many couples with young kids aren’t in crisis. They’re just depleted, and somewhere between daycare drop-off and bedtime, they started feeling like coworkers instead of partners. A Raleigh couples therapist (and toddler mom) on what this season does to a marriage, and what actually helps.