Featured Articles
Real relationship insights belong in the world, not just in therapy rooms. I'm grateful to contribute to publications and media that help couples understand themselves and each other more deeply. Below are my featured articles and interviews exploring everything from how to truly know your partner to creating the kind of intentional, connected relationship that's actually possible.
The couples I work with often arrive thinking something fundamental has failed. But usually, what's needed isn't a complete overhaul—it's a shift in perspective, intention, and how you show up for each other. These pieces reflect the real conversations that happen in my office, the patterns I see most often, and the insights that help couples move from quiet disconnection to genuine closeness. I hope something here resonates with where you are, whether you're considering therapy, navigating a specific challenge, or simply curious about what it takes to truly know and be known by your partner.
Questions Couples Who Are in Love Should Be Able To Answer About One Another
In this HuffPost feature, Tara Gogolinski, LMFT, shares why the strongest couples stay curious about each other’s inner worlds — not just their routines. She explains how thoughtful questions help partners deepen emotional attunement, build secure connection, and navigate stress with more clarity and compassion. Her insights highlight how small, consistent check‑ins can transform the way couples understand and support one another.
Eight Money Talks Couples Should Have Before House Hunting
In this Realtor.com feature, Tara Gogolinski, LMFT, shares the essential money conversations couples should have before they begin house hunting. She highlights how transparency, emotional context, and shared decision‑making help partners navigate finances without slipping into blame, shutdown, or power struggles — and how these early talks set the foundation for a more grounded, collaborative home‑buying process.
How to Conduct a Dating Audit
In this AskMen interview, Tara Gogolinski, LMFT, explains how a “dating audit” can help people break old patterns, date with more intention, and build connections that actually align with their long‑term goals. She highlights the emotional skills, self‑reflection questions, and mindset shifts that move dating from autopilot to something more grounded, aware, and meaningful.